Sex Tips

Increase Your Carnal IQ

If you and your partner have trouble talking about sex, try easing into the topic by playing a game together. Set aside a date evening for "Sex Trivia Night." If you're feeling really bold, you could even invite friends over to play. SexSmarts flash cards contain all kinds of fun Q & A that not only increase your carnal IQ but also get you talking about sexual topics outside of the bedroom. It's erotic and educational, too!
 
Delightful (Dirty) Dancing

Ah, dancing ... It's not just a fun pastime and good exercise. It’s also the kind of date-night activity that can naturally lead into a night of lust. Whether you and your lover organize an evening out at a nightclub or a private "club night" at home, dancing will allow the two of you to get close--and get freaky--outside of the bedroom. Listen to the music and feel the beat. Take advantage of each dance to touch, feel, and kiss your partner’s body. Be sensual. Tickle their ear with hot breath and whisper what you would do to them if you were in bed together. No need to have fancy moves or be a pro on the dance floor, just enjoy the moment with your partner. It’s all about how you two feel together and the anticipation of being alone together after a sweaty evening filled with sensual desire.

Explore New Horizons

I'm not sure if you've noticed, but anal eroticism seems to be on the upswing. So before you relegate this practice to things you would never do, consider this fact: This area of the body has an abundance of nerve endings that respond most favorably to stimulation. If you're new to anal play and are nervous about discomfort, start small. Begin your exploration by self-inserting or having your lover insert a well-lubricated finger or smooth, tiny flanged toy made especially for anal play. We also suggest you use a lube with a touch of desensitizer, like Anal-Eze. In trying something new, you may discover new sensations that are out of this world!

Feature Your Favorites

Do you have a favorite body part or physical attribute? There's no better time than lovemaking to highlight it! Love your legs? Choose a sexual position that puts them in plain view (over your lover's shoulders, perhaps). Do you have wonderfully soft skin? Then give your lover a massage using all of your body parts to press against them. Adore your eyes? Hold your lover's gaze during intercourse. Your options are endless. We all have things we don't like about ourselves, but there are plenty of sexy ways to accentuate the positive!